I'm Shandy Arguelles

I’ll help you move on from your divorce and feel like yourself again.

Forget time.

I will teach you how to move on from your divorce by managing your mind.

Divorced, Now What?!

Now it’s time for YOU.

Don’t know where to go? What to do?

You need Direction.

Through Direction after Divorce, I help you achieve the peace of mind that you so desperately need.

Are you still overcome with feelings of sadness, loneliness, and anger?

Do you sometimes feel lost, confused, or anxious?

Are you constantly ruminating about your ex and your past life? Comparing yourself and your life to his and others?

Do you want to move on but just don’t know how?

Don’t continue to navigate it on your own.

I will help you:

I’m the divorce attorney that believes in relationships.

Relationships are not only essential to the human experience, but they are the foundation for success in every area of our life.

Discover and deepen your relationship with yourself and be excited about your future.

You deserve to feel happy, confident, and loved.

Shandy Arguelles, J.D.

Certified Post-Divorce Empowerment Coach

I am a mom of 2 kids and I have 4 step-children that I love as my own. Our family is large, diverse, and growing.

We all do relationships every day.

In my divorce practice, I have been privileged to get an inside view into the homes and marriages of hundreds of clients. I’ve learned about their relationships and family dynamics. I’ve heard about their grievances, their regrets, the reasons for their trade-offs in life and marriage, stories about time wasted, dreams and passions that get suffocated. Somewhere along the way, people get lost, unhappy, and are unfulfilled. Life events continue to unfold and divorce happens. And divorce is a catalyst for change.

When I first started my divorce practice, I was wary that the work would be depressing. To my surprise, I found that although divorce is hard and can be life-changing, many people express relief (at least surface-level). I maintain a practice with high ethical standards in return, the work has been immensely rewarding.

Are you worried that you have no control?

Many people believe that the key to moving on from divorce is a matter of time. But, waiting on time implies that you cannot do anything about your situation – and that is simply not true.

The key to moving on from your divorce is not time.

The key to moving on is managing your thoughts about it.

Gain the clarity you need in order to identify and release limiting beliefs that are holding you back so you can let go, truly move on, and feel happy again.

I can teach you how.

Book a clarity call

Let me help you find your way back to yourself.

Rediscover your self-worth and ignite your confidence.